Gay senior living communities

A Guide to Queer Assisted Living Communities

Looking for Gay Assisted Living Communities? What You Need to Know

If you’re an LGBT senior, you’ve most likely been through some trauma in your past — from feeling appreciate you have to hide your sexuality to having people not accept your lifestyle.

And while things have gotten superior in these areas over the years, now that you are looking for an assisted living or retirement people, you don’t yearn to have to take any steps backward. 

Fortunately, if you know the right questions to request and things to look for, you can find a place that is just right for you.

Keep reading to find out what you need to know about lgbtq+ assisted living communities, plus some excellent resources that will help you on your journey.

Challenges Faced by LGBT Seniors

Senior adults, in general, face many challenges. Unfortunately, being gay and trying to design for your future in assisted living or a retirement community can attach another layer of issues.

Today’s seniors are among the first generations of LGBT people who fought for their rights to be out and receive the same treatment as straight people. They shouldn’t have to change any of th

LGBT Inclusion In Senior Living Communities Project

Capitol Hill Village is far from the first group to realize the importance of the needs of LGBT+ elders. Below are a variety of studies and papers that delve into the unique needs and circumstances of LGBT+ elders and potential solutions for the issues they face.

 

2025 LGBTQ State of Aging

This report provides an overview of key findings from a 2025 study conducted by SAGE and University of Nevada, Las Vegas. This study targeted LGBTQ elders living in rural areas, BIPOC LGBTQ elders (Black, Indigenous, and people of color), TGNB elders (Transgender and/or Nonbinary), shallow income LGBTQ elders, and LGBTQ elders with disabilities.  

 

AARP Dignity Report

This 2022 report by AARP complies the experiences of LGBT+ people 45 years and older such as physical and mental health needs, homeownership rates, monetary needs, and much more.

 

Sodexo

This 2019 record issued by Sodexo explores the need for and the usefulness of DEI and Cultural Competency training regarding LGBT+ older adults in care facilities.

 

Stories From The Field

Justice in Aging, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Gravity, SAGE,

Care

Experience peace of mind at Fountaingrove Lodge, a luxury senior living community in Santa Rosa. We know the importance of providing comprehensive care, which is why our residents and their families can recover easy knowing that our community features a state-of-the-art wellness center and a dedicated full-time nurse. From assistance with daily living to addressing specific needs, our services are thoughtfully tailored to each resident, ensuring personalized care and support seven days a week.

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Dining

Indulge in extraordinary culinary experiences at Oakmont Senior Living in Santa Rosa. Our executive chef and team of culinary professionals elevate every meal into a memorable event. Hand-picked from renowned culinary schools and fine dining establishments, our culinary team brings exceptional expertise to the table. Their skills are not only a testament to their talent but also a reflection of the extensive training for which Oakmont Senior Living is renowned.

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Floor Plans

Our thoughtfully planned apartment homes encompass a range of options, from sp

LGBT Inclusive Senior Living at Dayspring Villa

Promoting LGBT inclusive senior living is an important priority for Dayspring Villa.  Since December of 2017, Dayspring Villa, adjacent Sloan’s Lake, has made space for a group of LGBT seniors, team members, and their allies to collect together monthly. This elder-driven group, LGBT + Friends, has served as a safe forum for participants to debate challenges they own overcome and the advocacy and operate towards inclusivity that they would still like to accomplish.

The group welcomes older adults from neighboring Francis Heights, an independent living people, and has expanded its outreach through LGBT film nights and an annual PRIDE BBQ. These gatherings foster noticeability, connection, and belonging.

Our commitment to inclusivity continues to develop through initiatives and we support actions that reflect our dedication to creating a welcoming, affirming environment where all residents feel treasured and heard.


Colorado Health Foundation Grant

With this vision in soul, on behalf of the group, Dayspring Villa and Christian Living Communities (CLC), the operations owner, in partnership with the University of Colorado, applied for and we